women and hijab

Assalammualaikum and greeting to all the reader  

Before we continue talking about hijab...for muslim,lets take a look around of us..how many women that very close to you? is that so are we do our part as muslim to ask or tell them to be in hijab? If we wanna do that, in what purpose or the reason to do so??

Firstly, what it meaning of hijab?

- hijab is the dress that covers the adornment of the Muslim woman

- hijab literally meaning veil, cover, conceal, screen,drape, partition or separation.

- hijab is the dress that covers whatever might arouse instincts. It is what would keep a woman safe, not only in her own society but wherever she goes.

Secondly, it is compulsory to all muslim women?

hijab is the verses 30-31 in Surah 24 of the Holy Qur’an

{Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and be modest. That is purer for them. Lo! Allah is Aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over their bosoms, and not to reveal their adornment save to their own husbands or fathers or husbands’ fathers, or their sons or their husbands' sons, or their brothers or their brothers' sons or sisters’ sons, or their women, or their slaves, or male attendants who lack vigor, or children who know naught of women's nakedness. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And turn unto Allah together, O believers, in order that ye may succeed.}

It meanings that compulsory to all muslim women in hijab.

Nowdays, people always thought that all the women in hijab follow by  good behavior and atttdude. For me, that is two different thing between hijab and behavior plus attitude. If we taking about hijab is our belief in islam and must obey the Al-Quran and sunnah stated it but behavior and attitude  is all about akhlak. If we understand it we never put regard to one place.

We as muslim, especially men have responsibility to encourage our women to be in hijab because Al-Quran stated it and  also to make women calm and safe. women must be strong  foundation of understanding about hijab and than akhlak goes along together to be good in behavior, attitude, moral  and character.

As men, we just encourage women to be in hijab but not force to do so. If wanna change whatever of matter need have time and don`t ever to forget  USAHA + DOA + TAWAKAL insyaAllah everythings can be done. .

aku....rokok...dan dia...

Assalammualaikum dan salam sejahtera semua...

Kali nie aku nk berckp tentang rokok. Kenapa rokok lak??? Entah aku pn tak taw tp nk share pengalaman mcm mane aku cuba berhenti merokok.knp lak nk berhenti rokok??? Kita mulakn dlu ape tue rokok.

 

Rokok nie jenis beli kt kedai kotak rokok....bukak ambk sebtg, pastue ada lighter...putung letak kt bibir mulut...bakar ujung rokok...isap dan hembus. Tue je rokok nie?? Mcm mane leh layan je rokok nie..semua nie sbb ada nicotine..dan benda2 ln ar...byk nk cter..nk taw g cari sendiri. Persoalan nya....nape berhenti rokok??? Knp skrg??? Walhal aku dh merokok hampir 9 tahun dh...start aku from 3 dh isap rokok...

Kalu bab rokok nie, semua perokok nk berhenti...sape kata tak nk berhenti...kalau setiap kali bagun tido sakit dada...sesak nafas...batuk...kahak...etc. dari pengalaman aku, rokok nie nk berhenti kena usaha+doa+tawakal...sbb ape aku ckp mcm tue, sbb bkn senang nk berhenti rokok..payah..susah gler...faktor paling utama aku berhenti rokok, sbb aku kehilangan pak cik aku plg rapat. ( Al-Fatihah kepada pak cik sy Zayadi Bin Abd Rahman )

Apa lak kaitan nya??? Aku ngan pak cik aku mmg rapat. Boleh isap rokok sama2...lepak...share story...dlu time ada masalah leh cari dia ( pak cik zayadi aku polis, so papehal gaduh ke ape leh mintak tlg dia dlu ). Tiba-tiba dia diagnose sakit jantung, sebelum tue dia ada sakit paru2 dan masa tue aku belum masuk medical school ( perubatan / kedokteran ) agy.  Mungkin salah satu faktor pak cik aku sakit sbb rokok walaupun tue bkn faktor terbesar tp menyumbang ke arah sakit jantung dan paru2. Mungkin susah nk jelaskn mcm mane rase kehilangan seorg pak cik yg rapat..tp kita org islam kena redha....nie semua ketentuan dari Nya.

Tak lama lepas tue, time sedap2 isap rokok kt umah....leh lak rase sakit dada...sakit dia mcm jatung berdenyut laju gler smpi rase kt kepala...chuak dia tak taw nk ckp mcm mane. Kawan2 kt umah semua dh risau nmpk aku berpeluh dan jantung aku tak slow down. Aku pergi klinik check, doctor kata maybe tak der pape tp maybe refer ke cardiology. Balik umah mmg pasang niat nk berhenti ar tp berhenti bkn senang, ckp senang ar buat tgk....

 

Lepas selang beberape hari, sakit dada makin jadi2 mcm kena cucuk2....terus g hospital thamrin. Aku bt medical check up...check darah...bt x-ray...ECG. darah aku semua nmpk normal, ECG jantung nmpk wave dia normal tp bab x-ray ada suspect somethings. Chuak agy tak taw nk ckp mcm mane ar..ingat mati je tp doctor tue kate paru-paru aku suspect bronchitis. Aku bt 3 kali takut ada human error tp bab x-ray doctor tak bg, sbb kesan radio aktif. Bab bronchitis nie dgr pn mcm chuak gak....balik umah terus cari dlm buku....internet....tanya parents...family. Bila talipon akak aku....dia pakar radiologis dan dia nk tgk mcm mane x-ray aku okey ke tak...nk balik Malaysia plak masalah...time tue Allah je ar taw perasaan mcm mane...tahu ape akan jadi tp tak pasti betol or tidak. Balik Malaysia aku bg file medical check up kt akak aku, alhamdullilah dia kata nie peringkat awal agy...tak teruk sgt.....

Sementara tunggu nk bwk file medical check balik malaysia, mmg pasang niat nk berhenti rokok. Berhenti rokok nie bkn senang mcm org ckp...ckp nie semua boleh tp bt tue yg susah...aku dh rase  withdrawal syndrome...sakit gler..aku mula rase gelisah.....jantung berdebar2 laju tak tentu psl...emosi lbh...penat....marah2...etc. Sebaik ada kwn2 yg paham,mmg time tue nk je lempang org tak tentu pasal.  Byk efek withdrawal syndrome nie, satu je bg aku sakit nk lawan...bl jantung berdebar2 tak tentu pasal...tue mmg lemah. Dia bunyi jantung kt telinga dan aku mane leh kawal denyut jantung...takut ada..gelisah...pening pn ada gak. Aku berhenti rokok pelan2 smpi ar skrg nie....dulu ada gak beli electronic cigarette ( smoker heaven ) tp tak sedap n kesan dia agy teruk dari rokok tradisional...so ape langkah pertama aku berhenti rokok?? Salu kena ingat nie nk berhenti rokok..

JANGAN BELI ROKOK, JANGAN MINTAK ROKOK..BILA KAWAN BAGI AMBIK...

 

Knp aku ckp mcm nie, sbb nie sbnrnya ko tipu mind perokok...mmg tak beli rokok,harap kwn ar bg...lama2 kwn pn akan menyampah nk bg kt ko je kn...dalam masa yg sama dpt kurang kn rokok dan makin dekat nk berhenti rokok. Lepas tue nk bt ape lak??

Bila kwn start menyampah nk bg rokok jo, bt ar aktiviti yg leh hilang kn focus nk merokok. Sbnrnya mcm2 benda leh bt elak rokok nie, untuk penuhi masa dari ingat rokok. Bagi aku, aku start byk membaca.....start berjoging...start berenang....start menulis...etc. Alhamdullilah aku berhenti rokok dan aku rase otak aku nie berguna cikit...aktif ar cikit dari dlu...lembab je semua..muka pn kusam..mata bwh itam agy teruk..sekrg berkurang ar.

Berbalik ke pak cik aku tadi, aku mention dia bkn apa...dia faktor pendorong aku berhenti rokok. Dlu ingat agy kt atas bukit balik pulau penang lepak ngan dia...dia ada ckp kalu dia sakit nnt dia nk dtg kt aku...sbb semua family aku kebanyakkan perempuan bt perubatan ( medic )...mls nk dgr bebel dari diaorg..tue ar rase mcm aku bt medic tp tak leh bt pape..tak abis belajar agy...tp Allah lebih sayangkn pak cik aku...aku redha. 

Bila org ckp `tue ar merokok je keje,senang dpt penyakit’...kita nie manusia suka cari salah org ln...perokok nie semua nk berhenti rokok, cuba ar tanya diaorg. Kita nie semua kena ar sokong perokok untuk berhenti. Jangan ar  rendahkn semangat perokok nk berhenti rokok. BUKAN senang nk berhenti rokok, ckp mmg senang...kesan withdrawal syndrome dia tue ar sakit.

Jadi ape yg aku nk smpikn nie sbnrnya kita semua main peranan bg perokok untuk berhenti..bkn perokok je main peranan. Jujur aku ckp, dh hampir 3 bulan aku berhenti rokok tp ketagihan merokok tue ada agy...bl bau je asap rokok...jantung ln mcm....nk je isap rokok....tp kena kuat lawan ketagihan nie...sape2 kata berhenti rokok dan kata aku relex je..tak der pn sakit ke ape...agak bohong ar....ketagihan akan hilang dlm masa 6 bulan keatas.

Aku harap ape yg aku kongsi nie dpt ar beri manfaat kepada semua...duit pn boleh jimat....lbh bertenaga...otak boleh berfikir tenang...ape yg penting.....

USAHA + DOA + TAWAKAL = KEJAYAAN insyaAllah...

For my batch 09 USU Medan, Indonesia

Assalammualaikum....salam sejahtera....

Hye.....wanna share my experience studying in Universitas Sumatera Utara Medan,Indonesia. Here i put some picture of  sweet/ nice / awesome memory in Medan......especially batch 09....

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But somethings going wrong among us.....including me...

We have been here in Medan almost 3 years and still some of them we did`t ever know their  full name. It is ridiculous that we don`t ever know each other or have a gap between us , why i'm point it up like this it because here in USU just have ONLY two faculty, dentistry and medical school for Malaysian. I heard my friends who are studying in Malaysia, they have more faculty in the university compare than us but they have a lot of close friends which is different courses and age. The question is why we become like this??what going on?? Here i put some of my point of view about this...

-          -Some of us kinda hard to accept among friends the way they are.

-          -Some of us like to compare each other

-          -Some of us love to create the story, even thought they don`t know anythings

-           -Some of us prefer have their own click or friends

In my opinion for now on, especially for batch 09 we need to work together just like semester  1. We  don`t know anythings but we stick together  and work as team,we can face all kind of situation.  I'm saying like this not to mention who to blame on, but actually we  need to admit this is what happening. Lets  change and we believe it =)

beza pendapat dan pandangan

Assalammualaikum dan salam sejahtera.....

First time taip dlm blog nie...agak chuak gak ar. bismillah...berbalik ke isu beza pandangan dan pendapat . kita manusia nie masing2 ada otak dan akal leh berfikir....just nk share kalu kita beza pendapat dan pandangan tak salah...kita leh bincang dan duk satu meja....mane yg baik kita ambk mane yg buruk kita buang ar...ini termasuk gak dlm bab agama...islam itu adil...bl bkn agama islam bg pandangan or pendapat jgn terus buang...kita dgr ar dlu....tafsir dan baru ambk keputusan ape pandangan dan pendapat kita sbg islam. dalam bab politik dan persatuan pn mcm tue...mesti punye beza pendapat dan pandangan..akan jadi...kalu tak setuju kita leh bincang...jgn terus emo...susah ar mcm tue. Lately nie ramai tak suka kita beza pendapat dan pandangan...mane leh...dh manusia nie otak masing ada akal dan fikiran masing2...so akan jd pendapat dan pandangan berbeza...termasuk gak dlm blog nie gak...so is freedom to speak....point of view.....opinion...etc...jgn sempit kn kotak pikiran kita harap2 semua berjalan lancar...berkat usaha+doa+tawakal...amin... orait